Yeah your right- there is no quick fix, 10 min plug and play, or easy way to become that modeled TV superhero with perfect self-esteem/ confidence that you want to be. If you develop a few courses of action and implement them into your daily life, I know you will start experiencing the Success you desire! It's achievable as long as you take action in making the desired change. Taking and continuing action is the hardest obstacle we face.
Self-confidence is directly stemmed from your self-esteem, the way that you view yourself personally, and professionally. It's also based upon how your friends, family, and co-workers view you. Your emotional mental stability can be like a roller coaster within your mind. It happens to even the best of us. We all have fears and discomfort in our everyday lives that make is nauseous. If you want to make change be honest with yourself in this matter instead of masking it and never addressing it. Are you the possible factor of why another individuals self-esteem is low? Have you ever thought about how boosting your teams self-confidence will assist your organization to become even more successful? A increased quality of the work environment ties directly to increased financial profitability. Whether you're just a busy bee worker or a leader on the ground affecting others, you have the power to change culture amongst those you affect.
Sometimes you need to start a new trend or even make a life transformation. Conduct a honest personal self-assessment of your own SWOT (strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats); you'll be amazed of the areas you can improve for yourself, which will increase your quality of life. This will also improve the life of others around you and who they are connected with. You need to become aware of what things you want to do vs. what you don’t want to do. Determining what's important to you will help you in your plan you need to establish in order to get you to where you want to be.
Take a positive approach and put a encouraging spin on those little ankle biters that affect the daily work environment. I know it's too easy to just fly off the handle but by being strong and not doing this, it'll strengthen your own resiliency. If you think Success you will find it. If you're constantly thinking negative thoughts than obviously you'll find and experience that immediately; because you're in search of it. Focus on mastering the basics of what you need to know and do; use this as your expertise so you can constantly capitalize and experience Success. By knowing your expertise inside and out, you will gain the comfort you're in search of. This will also give security to those you work for of providing excellent work.
Emplace mini-goals or projects within your day so you can experience Sway-points throughout your day. When you hit these Success points celebrate! You must act immediately on Success! Celebrating it will make it become more familiar and the more familiar it feels the more you will want to celebrate Success. Positive re-enforcement is key to your Success, both as a professional and Leader! Share your successes with others so they can be a part of it and they will start to do the same. By doing this you are improving your self-image and your own mental emotional state of mind. If you don’t have these goals in your daily life, tasks begin to feel mundane, and happiness will start to decrease. As this happens your moods changes and your self-confidence lowers which in turns makes you less productive.
As you celebrate, start to focus on bigger pictures in a way that you can channel this passion into the productivity of larger projects. Have you ever looked in the mirror when you were experiencing Success? You looked amazing right? I know that I did! What stands out to me most in what I see in the mirror, the huge unforgettable smile on my face. The mere fact that a smile makes you feel better and you may have a better chance to experience Success means you should try putting forth additional effort to smile more throughout your day. While doing that, take a more appreciative approach to people by being kind, grateful, generous, and helping others. This will get you so much further in life than not doing it at all. It also assists in culminating a great work environment.
Exercising your mind & body is key to decreasing stress and anxiety; which in-turn assists you in increasing self-confidence. You do this by becoming fit and living a healthy lifestyle on a daily basis verse only exercising and eating healthy once a week. Exercising your mind doesn’t take extra time within your day, but using the time within your day as you work to empower yourself intellectually with knowledge. Most of this will be in preparing for the tasks you have at hand. If you're not prepared than obviously you will have lower self-esteem. If you are well-prepared you will experience mini-successes more so than not. By taking adequate time to prepare you will start to shine much more than you have ever experienced. This will bring you happiness which in turn promotes Success!
Becoming more active in life will bring you many more joys. Find hobbies and activities to partake in so you will have things that you personally enjoy doing. I too have become so obsessed with work, so much that I've neglected myself and it ended up biting me in the butt. I never noticed that I wasn’t personally happy until a co-worker approached me about it. Have you ever had a co-worker tell you all you ever talk about is the product and work......why don’t you talk about You and your experiences in life? This made me really take a deeper approach to myself which helped me to become a more effective leader of my teams. By doing so, they were able to know much more about me personally which in-turn helped them become more comfortable with me; allowing trust to happen faster. When a team has established mutual trust amongst themselves there definitely is a better return of investment from everyone within the team.
One of the hardest things to do is commit yourself to Success. This is the plan that you have emplaced in order to get from point A to point B. Taking action is where most individuals fail. Why is it so hard to follow-through with your own clear and unequivocal promise to yourself? If you believe you can succeed right? Most people failed because they didn't make a solid executable plan. The plan needs to be well-balanced, well thought out, and flexible enough so you won't bail on it when it starts to get uncomfortable. Remember to develop your own or become part of local support group of various channels through friends and family by being active. This support group will assists in the positive influence that we all are in need of. Positive affirmation is key to sustaining forward momentum on your pathway to Success!
Your mind is so much stronger than you can ever imagine, take advantage of it!
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I will be available for relocation and career opportunities in March of 2017.
Success starts here! Let’s discover your potential~
Justin C. Pearson, Founder and CEO, Just in Success
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